Sunday, September 4, 2011

weekend thoughts

The transition into living alone has been both a great one and a lonely one for me. While I have friends here in Grand Rapids, I only have a few close friends who have stuck around the area since graduation, and a few of my friends are still in school and have classes. I want to find a church community that I can connect with. GR friends: any young adult/church community suggestions?

Also, friends who live alone: any suggestions on how to combat loneliness in your new apartment?

The nice part about living alone is that I am finally finding "me" again. I spent the last two years trying my hardest to please others and be who I thought they needed me to be. That is no way to live! Now, I am forced to focus on myself. I am remembering what I need to be happy. This has been a nice time of restoration and recharging for me. I also love the freedom to come and go as I please.

Many times this week, I have jumped on my bike, and I spent an hour or two riding around GR, just exploring. I have discovered neighborhoods, coffee shops, and little shops that I would love to visit soon. If any of my West Michigan friends would like to join me on these adventures, you are always welcome! I would greatly appreciate the company!

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Coming soon:
End-of-Summer updates
More India posts!
Thoughts on love and growing up

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Good Things

Here are some highlights of my life recently:
-Moving into my own apartment. I have been busy, but things are finally beginning to come together. My little space is finally starting to feel like a home!
-I AM A TEACHER! I am the ELL Coordinator at a charter school in Holland. I LOVE IT. It has been a lot of work so far gathering data and inputing it, but everyone that I work with is AWESOME. I have felt so welcomed all week. Today there was an orientation, so I finally got to meet a lot of families and students! I even found out that a student I taught last year is now going to my new school. This is good news!
-Teachers invited me out to lunch today.
-Giant tire swing+swing dancing+the Electric Cheetah with good friends+GR from 28 floors up=one good night.
-My family loves me.
-I have good neighbors.
-I can ride my bike around town. I have not been in my car once except to drive to school. Speaking of driving, I really love my drive to and from school. The drive gives me a chance to wake up in the morning and unwind at the end of the day.
-Celebrated Lindsay's birthday with her and Megan and a bunch of great ladies.
-Spent the day in Holland on Sunday. Lemonjello's, Engedi, and an India Reunion.
-Groovin' in the Grove on Monday.
-Sarah Russo is probably coming to West MI this weekend!

Sunday, August 28, 2011

on living alone

I don't care that it's a TV show. If the ladies of Sex and the City can live alone, then I can do it too! This is going to be good.

Friday, August 26, 2011

in the beginning

I am embarking on a new adventure today. Thanks to my friend Chelsea for reminding me that this IS an adventure, and not merely just a "next step" in life. I am moving into my own apartment this afternoon, and I begin a full-time job (with benefits!) on Monday. I will be TEACHING. Livin' the dream, as Christopher Cox told me. It is amazing how God took me, this girl who four years ago said "I never want to work with kids," and turned me into a woman passionate about children and furthering their education. I LOVE TEACHING! I am ecstatic about this opportunity. Alas, I am also terrified. This position is so new to me, and I don't want to fail these children. I am up for the challenge though! My wonderful friends and family remind me of this constantly. I love you all.

and... I am off! Blasting through my radio on the drive across the state will be a playlist, full of songs with titles like: "The Adventure," "Kids," "Spinning," "In the Beginning," "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun," "Take Me Home Tonight," and "Dog Days Are Over."

Bring it on, life. I am here to love you and live in you fully.

Saturday, August 6, 2011

love wins

These past couple of weeks, between writing cover letters, searching for apartments, and serving my cousin and her children as an au pair, I have been squeezing in time to read Rob Bell's Love Wins. Before reading this book, I heard a lot of controversy surrounding it. The biggest problem that people seemed to have with this book was that Rob Bell apparently says "there is no hell." Either these people never actually read the book or they completely missed the point. I have been pondering the message Bell is trying to convey through this book. In the meantime, I have also begun working on my "worldview" paper as a part of my India trip/senior seminar. The thoughts I have been jotting down as notes for my paper have been influenced a lot lately by what Bell has to say. We all live in our own little hells. We turn away from God daily by choosing to do or think or say little things that go against the beautiful life God has planned for us. We are actually designed to strive for the best; to strive for a world in which everyone lives according to the free love God gives. But we mess up. We go against God. But guess what? God still loves us. He chooses to love us--He loves us through all the hurt and the pain and our disregard of Him. The real kicker is that this is how God calls us to live as well. Forgive and love. No matter what. How do you begin to put the past in the past and begin to love everyone? A friend of mine recently asked me, "Have you tried praying for those that have hurt you over the past couple of years?" I replied, "It's hard. How do you even begin to figure out the right things to say to God about the people who have hurt you most?" This is tricky, but when you finally admit to yourself that you have also caused wrong and hurt to others (and to God); that you are not perfect or even better than those that have hurt you--well, this is the moment when forgiveness can truly begin.

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

sweet summertime

I am going to take a break from India posts to update everyone on my life back home so far this summer! Since returning home from India and France, I have been blessed to visit Chicago twice, visit West Michigan twice, spend time with some great friends and family back home, and work a week with SpringHill Day Camps. In between job searching and apartment searching, I have been having a fabulous summer!

My first visit to Chicago began when I landed in the USA, fresh off the plane from foreign lands. I have never been so thankful for everything American! Believe it or not, Chicago felt like a small town to me that first weekend back. I could navigate the streets and the L with my suitcase AND hiking backpack without bumping into anyone on the sidewalks. Everything was fresh and new to me again: trees looked extra green; flowers smelled delicious, and I could smell them from hundreds of yards away; and the clean, empty streets made me giddy every time I went to cross them. Although I loved India and all her glory, I am happy to be home.

Once I navigated the L to Chelsea's apartment (with all of my luggage), we walked around Lakeview over to an ice creamshop, Bobtail, where we met up with Marisa. I ordered a merlot ice cream with dark chocolate chips. It was delicious! There was a customer-designed flavor contest going on. Someone recommended a "PBR" ice cream. That would probably taste horrible, but I hope it wins because I think that would be funny! Marisa, Chelsea, and I shared stories of our summers thus far. It was fun to hear what they have been up to! They both have such exciting lives! Both of those women have such a passion for fun and adventure, and I look up to them for that.

After ice cream, Chelsea and I headed to Millenium Park for the free Monday night concert. We say Phosphorescent and the Campbell Brothers. Apparently, everyone BYOB to the concerts, so Chelsea grabbed her BYO bag that she got in Australia, and we brought some white wine with us to the park. We enjoyed the show until it started to gettoo cold out. We packed up our blanket, jumped on the L, and headed over to Parth's to say hello. He showed us around his new Lakeview apartment, which is so nice! He is a great friend indeed.
Millenium Park with Chels!

The next day, Chelsea had a coffee date with a friend, so I met up with Sarah for lunch! We wanted Mexican food, and to sit outside, so we ended up at a delicious little place on Clark called El Jardin. We split the veggie fajitas and some guac and chips, and we each ordered frozen margaritas to beat the heat. A guy at a table near us told us we should try out a restaurant in Wicker Park sometime called Big Star. They specialize in Mexican and whiskey. Sarah, next time I'm in Chicago--let's go! We then went to Slugger's, where Chelsea and Joel met up with us. We sat and chatted for a bit, and then it was time for me to grab my bags from Chelsea's and catch my Amtrak train back home.
Lunch at El Jardin.

My second trip to Chicago was the following weekend with my friend Emma for our dear friend Sarah's birthday! What a wonderful friend she is! There was no question about me traveling to her. On our first night, we enjoyed beers outside in the beer garden at Duck Fat, and then we spent the night at her dad's place in the city. The next morning, we woke up and headed to Starbucks so that Emma could send emails to families abroad in search of an au pair job! We then went to a vegan restaurant called Karyn's Cooked for Sarah's birthday lunch! Parth met up with us, and we enjoyed GREAT food and company. The three of us girls spent the rest of the afternoon shopping downtown. We then dined in style at the Grand Luxe Cafe, where we went for chocolate cake and drinks to top off Sarah's birthday! Emma and I then stayed at her place in Holland. The next day, I stopped by Megan's new house in Grand Rapids!
In Chicago for Sarah's birthday!!

In between and after my trips to Chicago, I have hung out with great friends from home! I have had many opportunities to see close friends and reunite with girls I ran cross country with in high school. I feel blessed to have all of these hangouts! I also went on a road rally with the college group from church. What a blast that was! Our team won. The reward? Gourmet cupcakes from a new-ish bakery in downtown Plymouth, the Cupcake Station. I also got to celebrate the 4th of July TWICE with my family! Once at my Uncle Ray and Aunt Paulina's home in Manchester and again the next day at my grandma's for our annual fountain fireworks and grill-0ut.
Team Winners [solid rock college group road rally]

Besties!

I have also traveled to West Michigan twice. My first trip was to see my good friends Tina and Amanda. Amanda is basically my twin in this life, and Tina is an amazing woman whom I have traveled abroad with twice and have grown closer to each time. I love them both! We hung out at Tina's, sunbathed at the beach, and took Tina to Captain Sundae for the first time ever! I also went to the beach with Aaron Martin, hung out with Emma on her rooftop, ran into Jacob and chatted for a while, and got drinks with David. On my way home from Holland, I stopped by Megan's in Grand Rapids. We ended up going out with her roommates and danced the night away. It was so much fun!
at Tunnel Park with Amanda and Tina!

Tina's first-ever Captain Sundae trip!

Megan!

The following weekend, I traveled to Grand Rapids again to see Harry Potter at midnight with my bff, Megan! We saw the movie, had mixed feelings, and passed out in her bed. The following day, we woke up, watched the Fresh Prince of Bel Air, ate breakfast, went to the John Ball Park Zoo with her roomie Natalie, and then we visited Megan's old roommates, Lindsey and Kelsey, and swam in their pool. This weekend, my family came out to Grand Haven to spend the week here. We are staying in a cozy little condo on the third floor of a building right off the main road, Harbor Road. We have spent a lot of time at the beach; gone boogie-boarding; walked along the pier; gone on bike rides; drank a lot of coffee from Jumpin' Java; went to the Tri-Cities Museums; ate at Snug Harbor, Kirby Grill, Pronto Pups, and Butch's Beach Burritos; and played a lot of Scrabble. We even got to spend an entire day in Holland, and my friend Emma came to visit me! We walked around downtown and down the pier. She's great. We head home tomorrow, and I can post pictures from our trip then! I have enjoyed all of the time I have been able to spend with my family this week. It truly has been wonderful!

In between my trips to the west side, I had the opportunity to work for SpringHill Day Camps in Plymouth. Best week of my summer thus far--hands down. I got to co-counsel a group of fifth graders with Steve, from church, and a girl Ashley, whom I had the pleasure of getting to know throughout the week. I also got to be in my good friend Vinnie's area, which was such a treat! I got to sing camp songs, play camp games, run activities, and love on kids--some of my favorite things in life! I also dug deeper into God's Word this past week--something I have not done in too long. Lately, I have been dwelling more on His Word, and I can really notice a change within myself. God is working on big and beautiful things in my life, and I can't wait to see where He takes me!

(more photos coming soon!)

What's next in my life? Next week, I am heading down to Florida for an unknown amount of time to au pair for my cousin Heather. I get to hang out with her and her beautiful children, Ella, Olivia, and Jonah, full-time! I am pumped.

After that, I plan on moving to Chicago--job or no job. I pray for a classroom of my own, but I will substitute teach until I can find a place of my own if I have to. God is good, and he has provided this wonderful back-up plan for me.

I will continue to post India updates as I have time!

Saturday, July 16, 2011

Mumbai

We flew IndiGo to Mumbai. There were no meals served on the plane, and I was feeling a little sick to my stomach when we took off. I came to find these stomachaches to be a normal occurrence every morning that I was in India. As our plane landed, we had an incredible view of the slums of Mumbai. These are some of the largest slums in the world, yet we did not see them at all while in the city because they are surrounded by a tall cement wall. Supposedly, 60% of Mumbai's population live in slums (about 7 million people). Contrast this against the fact that Mumbai is named as number 7 in the world on the list of "billionaire cities," and you will understand why the cement wall was built: the billionaires don't want to see the slums or the people who live in them.

When we arrived in Mumbai, Chacha found us some taxis that would drive us into the city. As we approached the city, I was in awe of everything. I tried my best to get a glimpse of early-morning life in the slums, but I could hardly see anything. As we got closer to the city center, I could see thick black smoke billowing out from buildings ahead. Talk about pollution problems!

We finally arrived at the Sea Green Hotel, which sits on Marine Drive, right across from the Arabian Sea. Marine Drive reminded me greatly of Lakeshore Drive in Chicago--curving along the coast and lined with skyscrapers. The western feel was comforting. After dropping off our bags in our hotel rooms, we began our day by following Chacha around town. He took us through a British-inspired part of town, where we walked through a large park, in which a cricket tournament was being held! We then went to see the Gateway to India, a huge arch that was built by the British to honor the visit of King George V and Queen Mary in 1911. Directly across from the Gateway is the Taj Mahal Palace Hotel. This hotel was built by Tata in the 1890s to demonstrate the beauty and valor of India. How fitting a location he chose--directly across from the English monument, which demonstrates England's once-dominant presence in India. Because the hotel is such a luxurious symbol of India, Islamist terrorists attacked the hotel in November 2008. The terrorists held hostages, including Indians and foreigners, inside as they attempted to burn the building down. India jumped right back and rebuilt the hotel in less than two years, though! And let me tell you...it is BEAUTIFUL.
Marine Drive (see the resemblance to Chicago?)

Our hotel, the Sea Green Hotel

Cricket Tournament

Gateway to India

Taj Mahal Palace Hotel

Inside the Taj Mahal Palace Hotel

After seeing the Taj Hotel, we went for lunch as a Muslim restaurant. Here, the food was so spicy to me that I began to cry because I was in so much pain. This was not your typical, oh my eyes and nose are watering because of the spice. No, this was, my head is throbbing and I can't feel my throat because the pain from this spice is so intense. I ate a lot of white rice and bread at that meal. Afterwards, we went to the Mani Bhavan Ghandi Museum, where we walked around, looked at many photos, read many stories, and saw many dioramas that told Ghandi's story. Chacha looks like Ghandi, so we had him pose with a statue. We thenclimbed a hill to a temple. From there, we walked to the hanging gardens. When you hear this, you might picture something similar to the hanging gardens of Babylon. Nope. These gardens do not hang over you from above. Rather, the roots of these plants hang down into a huge water basin, where water is stored for the city. They were neat! This is the place where families dress up and visit on Sunday afternoons. We then went to the children's park, where we got a lovely view of the city skyline and the Arabian Sea coast. Two girls approached us with flowers for ourhair and wanted their photo with us. It is nice to feel like a celebrity sometimes.
Chacha with a Ghandi statue.

View of Mumbai and the Arabian Sea from the hanging gardens.

We then walked to another temple, where we sat and chatted for a bit. We then hopped on a bus to Chowpatty Beach. We ran into a slight problem on this bus ride, though. A few of us girls were sitting in the very back row, and the rest of our group was at the front. This was a very crowded bus, and we could not see out group members very well over the heads of the many people sitting and standing throughout the bus. At one stop, we called ahead, "Do we get off here?" One girl immediately called back, "Yea!" So, us girls at the back jumped off. All of a sudden, the bus started to move again, but we realized no one else from our group had gotten off. We heard a man call out from inside the bus, "Oh no!," and we saw our group members looking out at us, obviously thinking the same thing. The four of us girls ran towards the bus, two of us in sarees, and we jumped up, hanging onto the handles, barely standing on the step, being pulled up by men already inside. Thank goodness we made it! We would have been fine though, seeing as our actually stop was only one stop away.

This brings me to the Sunday night beach festival. Every Sunday evening on Chowpatti Beach, a festival occurs! People, including many families, gather on the beach in their Sunday's best to play cricket, ride carnival rides, swim, and eat the world's best grilled corn. We walked along the beach in our punjabis and sarees past peanut and other snack vendors, colorful pinwheels, balloon stands, and kite-flyers until we came across a man selling grilled corn. The first man we met rubbed chili powder on his corn, so a few girls and I headed down to the next corn man, since we were still getting used to the spice (and I still felt like I needed to recover from lunch). This man was younger, very smiley, and could barely speak English. He understood what we wanted though: the best corn ever. He had a small grill (maybe 12-inches tall) on which he grilled his corn to perfection, directly on the coals. He then coated it with sea salt and lime juice. OH MY GOSH YUM! I bought two corn cobs that evening. I wish I could have eaten more! We then walked down the beach towards the carnival rides, where we saw four men manually operating the ferris wheel: they would climb up, grab on, and fly down to the ground, where they jumped off and climbed back up to the top to repeat the process. I was nervous for their lives!
Man grilling corn on the beach. MMM!

Beach festival.

We then headed back to the part of town where our hotel was located. Since Mumbai is a huge financial center of India, there is a lot of Western influence. Right next to our hotel was a pizza parlor called Pizza by the Bay. This is where we had dinner. This was the one and only time I felt uncomfortable in India clothing while in India. First of all, we were the only non-Indians in the restaurant. On top of that, we were the only people wearing Indian dress. Chacha was also very frustrated because he wasn't getting the exact tables that he wanted, so he made a few of us stand over people at their tables, expecting them to leave for us. I did not like this at all. Once we finally got to sit down, though, we ordered delicious pizzas! Laura I and I shared a margherita pizza. mm mm mmm! We sat at tables right along the windows, which let in a nice sea breeze. Laura and I discussed coming back later that evening to do karaoke. That plan failed when we fell asleep immediately upon our return to our hotel room.
Pizza dinner at Pizza by the Bay.

We woke up the following morning and headed into town with our group. One of the first things we saw after getting off the train were the dhobi ghats, a huge outdoor laundry service in Mumbai. There are clothes everywhere and men in underwear standing in small cement baths smacking the clothing against the walls as a way to get the dirt out. The clothing all gets separated by type: jeans, white undershirts, t-shirts, petticoats, plaid shirts, etc. Nothing is labeled, but somehow it all makes it back to the correct households. Amazing.
Dhobi ghats.

We then headed to the racetrack. Here, we saw another huge contrast in wealth. The racetrack is a place where the wealthiest people from all over the world keep horses to race. The wealthiest people are also the ones who visit to see the races. Who works here and takes care of the horses? The poorest people of Mumbai. We walked in through the back entrance, so we were able to see a small shanti village, where homes were haphazardly built and placed. I saw small apartments that seemed to be almost toppling over, homes built in trees, and one small girl sitting in a half-tent that was balanced between a fallen tree and a broken fence. I was able to peek into some of these homes. Each was a small one-room apartment, the walls lined with pots and pans, a small mattress on the floor for the entire family, a lot of clothing piled in the corners, and sometimes a small TV flickering in the corner. At the racetrack, we got to pet the horses, and the worker men brought us carrots and leafy greens to feed to the horses. That was fun!
Girl in a "tent" home outside the racetrack.

Shanty homes by the racetrack.

Prize-winning horse, Daimler.

After the racetrack, we were going to go to a temple out on the Arabian Sea. Unfortunately, when we got there, the path out to it was nearly flooded over, and the tide was still rising, so it would not have been safe for us to walk out there. So...we headed back to the Churchgate neighborhood. We then had a free afternoon. Some of us walked to find a handmade paper company called Chimanlal. We navigated our way through back streets until we finally found it. Here, we found some of the coolest handmade paper creations, such as journals, lamps, gift tags, and more! We then walked back to Churchgate to eat lunch at a very westernized cafe called Mocha. I ordered a soy burger and a chair, and they were both delicious! We sat there for a while chatting and writing letters and postcards. We then headed back to our hotel to catch our taxis to the airport, where we would leave for Bangalore. Once we arrived at the airport, though, we ran into a HUGE problem. We arrived for our 615pm flight, only to find out that the flight was actually at 615am, twelve hours earlier. The entire airport staff stopped what they were doing, and they somehow managed to fit all 14 of us on a full flight at 7pm that same evening. God works great miracles!
Chimanlal Paper Company, Ltd.

Hanging out at Mocha.

In the taxi, on our way to the airport.